How Much to Spend on a Hostess Gift….Real Talk
One of the top questions we often get from our friends and community is: “How much should I actually spend on a hostess gift?”
We polled our customers and the answers lined up with what etiquette experts say: the “right” amount depends on the occasion. Whether you’re dropping by for a casual dinner or spending the weekend at someone’s home, the price point shifts.
Hostess Gift Spending Guide (We Asked, You Answered)
Dinner Party: $30–$50, A great bottle of wine, artisanal chocolate, olive oil, Cocktail picks or Bundle of wine charms
Holiday Gathering: $45–$60, Flowers in a vase, gourmet food basket, Wine + Embroidered velvet wine bow
Weekend Stay / Host Family: $75–$150, Luxe candle set, specialty liquor, coffee table book, Set of 6 “Please leave by 9” napkins
Milestone Event (wedding, baby, housewarming): $100+, Personalized home gift, champagne, Full hosting bundle
How Our Guide Compares to the Experts
We’re not the only ones talking numbers. Lifestyle and etiquette experts agree that there’s no one-size-fits-all context is key!
The Spruce suggests $20–$50 for casual dinners, more for overnights.
Martha Stewart Living recommends $25–$50 for dinner parties, $100+ for extended stays.
Real Simple echoes that gifts should be thoughtful and occasion-specific.
Southern Living adds that presentation is just as important as price, make it feel special.
Our customer feedback (dinner $35–$60, holiday $45–$60, weekend $75–$150) proves that modern hosts are willing to spend a bit more because thoughtful, well-designed gifts make a bigger impact!
The Takeaway
Your hostess gift budget doesn’t need to be complicated. Match the amount to the occasion, focus on thoughtful details, and add a dash of personality. A $48 set of No Reservations wine charms often feels more special and memorable than a generic $100 basket.
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