How Much to Spend on a Hostess Gift….Real Talk
We asked, you answered: here are the real price points for hostess gifts in 2025, broken down by category—plus chic ideas for each budget.
One of the top questions we often get from our friends and community is: “How much should I actually spend on a hostess gift?”
We polled our customers and the answers lined up with what etiquette experts say: the “right” amount depends on the occasion. Whether you’re dropping by for a casual dinner or spending the weekend at someone’s home, the price point shifts.
Hostess Gift Spending Guide (We Asked, You Answered)
Dinner Party: $30–$50, A great bottle of wine, artisanal chocolate, olive oil, Cocktail picks or Bundle of wine charms
Holiday Gathering: $45–$60, Flowers in a vase, gourmet food basket, Wine + Embroidered velvet wine bow
Weekend Stay / Host Family: $75–$150, Luxe candle set, specialty liquor, coffee table book, Set of 6 “Please leave by 9” napkins
Milestone Event (wedding, baby, housewarming): $100+, Personalized home gift, champagne, Full hosting bundle
How Our Guide Compares to the Experts
We’re not the only ones talking numbers. Lifestyle and etiquette experts agree that there’s no one-size-fits-all context is key!
The Spruce suggests $20–$50 for casual dinners, more for overnights.
Martha Stewart Living recommends $25–$50 for dinner parties, $100+ for extended stays.
Real Simple echoes that gifts should be thoughtful and occasion-specific.
Southern Living adds that presentation is just as important as price, make it feel special.
Our customer feedback (dinner $35–$60, holiday $45–$60, weekend $75–$150) proves that modern hosts are willing to spend a bit more because thoughtful, well-designed gifts make a bigger impact!
The Takeaway
Your hostess gift budget doesn’t need to be complicated. Match the amount to the occasion, focus on thoughtful details, and add a dash of personality. A $48 set of No Reservations wine charms often feels more special and memorable than a generic $100 basket.
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